Sometimes all a person wants to hear is “Yes. It sucks. It fucking sucks and I’m so sorry.” instead of “Well think of the positives.” “It’s just never easy.” “Remember how it changed you and made you a better person.” Sometimes all a person wants is someone to commiserate. I look at the positives all too often, sometimes I just need to be mopey and have people feel sorry for me. And that is perfectly all right.